Why? / Linda
I miss you more than anything and I would give the world to have you back, even if it would be just for a day. We should be celebrating this time of year - birthdays, Valentine's day, etc... but instead I stand filled with tears and sorrow, hoping tomorrow will be somewhat "better", but it just ends up worse as it is one more day without you. Love you Daddy. Linda xxx
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Remembering a great man  / Bridget Dtr Of Allan R. Peacock (United by Angels )

Linda, I understand.

My Dad was my whole world, too. The loneliness never leaves. There remains a void that no one can fill. Your dad was a remarkable man. One from the greatest generation. Thank you for sharing him.

Hold close the memories.

I am always here for you if you need to talk.

In my world, nobody seems to understand the grief. It doesn't seem fair that the sun continues to shine or that the world just GOES on without them.

But it does.

OH! Our dad's have something in common. My dad was always misplacing his glasses, and he loved the beach.

The day before my dad died, he left his sunglasses in my car and called to remind me to keep them till I saw him again.

I will.... Forever

Remembering always, Bridget

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It's lonely without you  / Linda (Daughter)
It's lonely here without you,
We miss you more each day,
For life is not the same to us,
Since you were called away.

To your resting place we visit,
Place flowers there with care,
But no one knows our heartache,
When we turn and leave you there.
~Author Unknown~
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Happy 63rd Birthday Dad 2008 - 22 months on this day you also became our Angel xxx  / Linda (Daughter)
Happy Birthday Daddy - We love you and miss you so much. Tonight we celebrated your birthday with a beautiful seafood dinner at home, James made prawn cocktails for us all and we had prawns, seafood extender and yummy oysters and a nice piece of Tasmania salmon. The table was surrounded with beautiful yellow and white roses and Sarah made you a lovely birthday bag for the yummy chocolates for desert. We know you would of approved as seafood was one of your favourites. Hope you also like the rock and roll music played in the back ground. Wish you were here to be able to celebrate with us but we will keep your memory alive everyday and each special day for you as you will always be with us no matter what. We love and miss you and your smile. Love forever Linda, Gordon, James, Sarah, David and Seanna. xxxxxxoooooo

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Together Again  / Linda
Dad I so wish to be with you again, to hold you so tight and never let go again, our life was only just starting together, we were getting so close as daddy and daughter and also as friends for a first time.

It was all taken away so soon. I wish I could just pack up everything and come and be with you but for some reason you won't let me just yet you keep on stopping me - putting something in my way that needs attending to.

Until you let me come and stop blocking me I will try and do my best with life down here as you would want me to, you were always so stubborn and set in your ways and you are still doing it from above, you will never give up will you.

It hurts so much each day and there is this bug bubble around me, i miss you so much each day is another day that i have to try and get through morning to night unitl i can come and be home with you.

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Stay storng  / Connor's Mom
No one can take away the pain but rejoyce in knowing that you all were chosen...you were chosen to be a wife, a child, and grandchild, and family of Robert. His smile is one of hope and joy and I believe that he would want to see great things come from all of you. Live out his dreams and help others see his light through all of you. 
Stay Strong! 
And don't forget to breath
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My heart and me  / Linda Baker (daughter)
I am not blessed, My daddy is gone
If you are healed, Please do move on
To places where you will be free
To share this gift of peace for thee

Don’t tell me what my walk must be
And when to cry, and how to grieve
I do not see the flowers of spring
I do not hear the birds that sing

Please let me cry in my own way
And not to fear the words I say
If God has planned that I should heal
He’ll let me know, my heart will feel

So if you’re blessed, please say no more
For blessings are not mine to store
Within my grieving, aching heart
That has been shattered, torn apart

My heart is now a lonely place
Where once there dwelled a life of grace
So please don’t tell me how to feel
In God’s own time, my soul He’ll heal
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Dad's place of peace  / Linda (Loving daughter )
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miss you pop  / Sarah Baker

• I miss your love
• I miss your care
• I miss your face
• I miss those eyes that twinkl 
• I miss those games we played
• 

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Thinking of You and Your Angel  / Dianne/Mom Of Angel Nicholas White (Connected by Angels )

I hope you always feel your dad's loving presense near you giving you the courage to take another step along this journey. You are never truly alone as he lives on in your heart. 

Hugs,
Dianne

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A little something for you....  / Judy Joe King's Wife Forever (angel friend )

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Dad, please watch over Caitlyn in Heaven  / Linda (Eldest Daughter )
Daddy I have meet a wonderful friend on this site and her daughter Caitlyn is in Heaven with you now. Caitlyn is one today and such a beautiful little girl with a lovely big smile. Please take care of her and hold her in your arms just like you did when you were with us here with James and Sarah. 

Please look after her and show her the many things like you did with James and Sarah give her lots of love and cuddles. Help her to show her mummy and sisters that love keeps going no matter what and that she is at peace and is happy in Heaven.

Dad, James and Sarah had such wonderful times growing up with you just wished they had many more years. 

Thank you for being a wonderful poppy to them both and showing them how precious everyday is to be happy as thou it is your last. Thank you for making them such loving and caring children and always thinking of others. If it wasn't for you they wouldn't be the children that they are today. 

We all miss you so much, and each day is harder without you here but we are all trying really hard to cope with everything going on in our lives today just as you would of wanted us to. 

Love is forever

Linda xxxxxx

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A GRAPHIC FOR YOU  / DONNA MEDEIROS (DAUGHTER OF ANGEL RUTH HOBBS )
Hi Mr Clark, 
I saw your daughters post for some graphics for your site and thought you and they might like this one.  May God Bless and give them strength to move foward each and every day!!

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A GRIEVING DAUGHTER'S WISH LIST  / Linda (DAUGHTER)
A GRIEVING DAUGHTER'S WISH LIST

I wish you would not be afraid to speak Dad's name. He lived and was important,
I need to hear his name, and I need to share memories of him.

If I cry and get emotional when we talk about Dad, I wish you knew that it isn't because
you hurt me: the fact that he died causes my tears. You have allowed me to cry and I thank you. Crying and emotional outbursts are healing.

I will have emotional highs and lows, ups and downs. I wish you wouldn't think that if I have a good cry my grief is all over.

Being bereaved is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't stay away from me.

I wish you knew all the "crazy" grief reactions that I am having are in fact very normal. Depression, anger, fear, hopelessness, short- term memory loss, and questioning of values and beliefs are to be expected following a death.

I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over in 6 months or even a year. The first few years are going to be exceedingly traumatic for me. As with alcoholics, I will never be "cured" or a "formerly bereaved", but forevermore be recovering from my bereavement.

I wish you wouldn't expect my family's grief to be over in 6 months or even a year. The first year will be full of firsts without Dad, who was a loving member of our family. They too may cry and have emotional outbursts. There is no right or wrong way to grieve or any specific length of time to grieve the tragic loss of a beloved family member.

I wish you understood the physical reaction to grief. I may gain weight, lose weight, sleep all the time or not at all, develop a host of illnesses and be accident prone, all of which are related to my grief.

Dad's birthday, the remembrane of his death and the holidays can be terrible times for my family and me. I wish you could tell us that you are thinking of us and Dad on these days. And if we get quiet and withdrawn, just know that we are thinking about Our Dad and don't try to coerce us into being cheerful.

I wish you would understand that I have to hurt before I can heal.

I wish you wouldn't tell me you understand how I feel, because unless you have lost spmeone close, you couldn't possibly understand my pain.

I wish you understood that grief changes people. I am not the same person I was before my beloved Dad died and I will never be that person again. If you keep waiting for me to "get back to my old self" you will stay frustrated. I am a new creature trying to redefine myself with new thoughts, dreams, aspirations, values and beliefs. Please try to get to know this different me -- I'm the one who'll be here from now on.

I wish you knew how much the loving support I receive from my family and special friends means to me. I don't think I would have made it this far without them.

--Author to Original Poem Unknown --
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Tried to send this to you privately.. but the site page was down...  / Mary Roberts (none)
Hi I know you dont' know me... but I am so touched by you site I want to offer to make you a free video with some of his fav music and pic...

I have a program called Muvee maker and it's very simple to use... easier than Windows Movie Maker...

Or I would be glad to help you make your own... Windows Movie Maker should be on your computer...

I hesitate to offer this because I'm sure you get some weirdos out there...

Here is my yahoo 360 page... the blog is for friends only.. join if you yahoo...

http://360.yahoo.com/joyinthemorning2006



What ever you decide is fine... thanks for sharing your dad with us... he must have been a wonderful man to be loved so much...

Blessings, Mary Close

Your Wonderful Dad...  / Mary Roberts (None)
This is the most beautiful site... I love all you have done here...

I lost my father 21 years ago now and I still miss him... but love the good memories I have of him...

Thanks for sharing this...

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My Poem by KA Gavan  / Kylie-Ann Gavan (Snoopy)
It’s a funny thing about life you know how things they come and go
And people moving here and there and always too and fro
I have lived a life where things and people seldom stay the same
It makes me wonder if it is all some strange and twisted game
Friends are made, happy feelings are gained
Hearts are opened and laughter rained
Before you know it unforeseen plans are laid
Then feelings are broken and you’re left with a token of how things used to be
Things are now changed never the same

Happy feelings are often torn apart and melted down due to distance and rough terrain.
People either move on or pass away and there goes another day
My heart you know it misses a beat - but one can never let it stay
As down days are only dark and grey
They achieve so little and create a ripple in life’s most general tasks
One must grieve the pain and move on in vein

A sincere and happy face makes a more healthy and positive race
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Thinking of you and your family Robert  / Jenny Tavendale Mum To Ross

Thinking of you Robert
and praying you will send
your precious family lots 
of special Angel Hugs
God Bless

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Sincere Condolences  / Shelly Alwayskennysmom
What a beautiful site you have created for your Dear Daddy,Linda.I am so sorry for your loss.Such a lucky girl to have such a wonderful dad in your life.Im wishing for you much strength to get through today,tomorrow & always."LOVE Bears all things Believes all things Hopes all things Endures all things LOVE Never ends."  Shelly  XXOO Close

Easter blessings to you Robert and your loved ones  / Debbie~Mom To Jillian Bouwens


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